How to know that you’re dealing with a toxic person? They do exist, and chances are we’ve met one or 2. Sometimes they might not realize they’re causing harm to others. There are situations that might be putting us at risk and, without us knowing it, damaging our sense of worth. Fortunately, there are warning signs you can look for to see if the person you’re dealing with is a toxic person.
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Toxic people play the victim 1:02
Emotional abuse 2:52
Pathological liars 4:07
Toxic people seek to control 5:25
People who don’t respect boundaries 6:32
Negative people 7:59
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SUMMARY
– People who struggle with the victim mentality don’t think they have power over their lives, and they blame other people and circumstances for how unhappy they are. They also avoid responsibility. Have you ever been in a situation where you believed someone owed you an apology but, by the end of the conversation, you ended up apologizing instead? That is a classic victim attitude, in which they flip the situation.
– Emotional abuse can be one of the most painful forms of violence and a killer of self-esteem. It can be verbal: yelling, belittling, criticism, and accusing. It can also be subtle: intimidation, manipulation, and the “silent treatment.”
– Pathological liars take lying to the extreme. A pathological liar is someone who constantly tells lies, usually in an effort to protect their image. They are masters of manipulation and can lie straight to your face. They tend to be impulsive people with a deep need to impress. Their lies might not always have a purpose, and sometimes they might lie to you just because they can.
– Some toxic people can be master manipulators, and they are clever about hiding their true intentions. Controlling people might want to know where you are and who you are with. They might be vocal about it or try to control you in more subtle ways.
– Toxic people project their vulnerabilities and insecurities onto another person in the form of anger and bullying. They are incapable of respecting boundaries. They can’t process their own toxicity, so they deal with it by putting it onto someone else.
– Everyone can feel negative sometimes. But toxic people wish to share their negativity with the world, and it can spread like wildfire. They can only speak of bad news or negative stories and complain nonstop.
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We've all met them, haven't we? Tell us your stories.
Woahhh ex- best friend alert?
This sounds like about every girl I've been meeting lately. But wait, am I playing the victim or am I just being honest. I know I may have some negative traits sometimes but I also know that I am human and emotions get the best of me. I also do know i practice mindful meditation on a daily basis and currently 233 days in a row on headspace. Not saying I'm perfect simply stating that my awareness has increased. Or am I just defending myself and image lol
I broke with a manipulated boyfriend. Suddently he texted me that he was’nt okay, had to go to the doctor to get his blood checked up. Later he was in a bar with friends, drinking… #toxic
Playing the victim. Feminists?
That thumbnail looks extremely disrming
I meet them every day…The key is to stay positive, and not to play the game.
When they use the word Toxic unironically meaning anything other than literal toxicity.
They are generally 100%, straight down the line, hall of fame… delusional. Jealousy, envy, resentment. If they can't achieve the excellence and/or achievements that you have, they will, with all their power, strive to bring you down to their level so at least then, they have a shot. It also provides them with a sick sense of satisfaction. F em.
everyone has a good and darker side.
This is my sister who lives right next to me in my room .-.
League of Legends EUNE in nutshell lesson
It's more better to have no friends than to have a bad mate.
Sometimes all we wish for is peace of mind. But isn’t it hard to come by? More so, when people in your life are difficult to get along with. To deal with toxic people effectively, you need to adopt ways that enable you to control what you can and do away with what you can’t. Here are the best five.
http://somedaytoday.in/5-smart-ways-to-deal-with-toxic-people/
2:18–2:30…me with all my ex gf's ..I i bet 95% guyz face the same. ???
I only answered yes to one of the questions to test if u r toxic and I answered yes to the like to talk ab ur toxic stories which I do do but I only tell them to one person
Do u think this makes me a toxic person bc I've been trying to figure out if I am or not for a long time 2nd the thought of being toxic makes me sad
What baffled me for the longest time is trying to figure out the end game. A thief steals for a reason but a toxic person demands all of your time, all of your money , all of your resources and when they get anything from you they waste it. Like thorns plants they demand much room and water but produce nothing of value, a toxic person has no end game they simply waste everything.
My example of a toxic person: my aunt Olga.
Wow I just realised I am toxic..
Reminds me of everyone I know fml
Should be teaching this in high school
what a trash video
this is the stupidest video I've ever seen
Question why say it may happen in your office? ..when 90% of the working class has no office there what one would say …blue collar workers
That cartoon victim sucks
One time my mom told me to get out the house and go somewhere so i called a friend then when i asked her if i could hang out with this friend she says "Nope" and i got so confused like you've been telling me to get out and now that i want to get out it's a no? She's like "You don't need to be hanging out with those ratchet friends " She didn't even know the girl i was hanging around and assumed that she was "Ratchet" Which btw is such a disgusting word. I even told her i knew the girl in middle school and we were good friends. So after trying to convince her she's not "ratchet" she goes on to tell me "You know there's been lots of human trafficking going on what if… Blah Blah Blah" Like i wanna know where that same sympathy goes when she tries to kick me out the house with no where to go. Honestly. It's like she doesn't want me to have friends.
What if the toxic person is your child and you are still raising them? What suggestions do you have for that dynamic????!
This hurts. I’m in a toxic relationship and can’t seem to find the way out cause I still believe this is what I deserve
There is a difference between a pathological and compulsive liar
A pathological liar will lie for personal gain and to prove to themselves that they can
A compulsive liar will almost always lie because they can't stop
I’ve always had to apologize in every argument
Just so we can stop arguing
& because I was scared ?
Of a grown man yelling at me calling me names
Thank you for this video ???
Thank you ♥
Anyone can become Toxic, we all possess a dark-side, it can be triggered in the best of us! We should all understand this before we comment here that it takes a greater person to be forgiving, compassionate and understanding before considering terminating the relationship.
My mother is very toxic
Wow. This video could literally be renamed: How to know when you're dealing with a Leftist or Liberal. 1. People who always play the victim. 2. Emotional abuse. 3. Pathological liars. 4. Seek to control. 5. Don't respect boundaries. 6. Negative people.
Sometimes being around a toxic person can rub off and make you toxic. If a person is constantly disrespecting or playing you, you'll end up toxic bcuz your pride is being hurt by them. It's best to get away from them.
Amen!
well I think we all have one of these traits you know like im negative but its usually because someone gets me that way by actions or saying something to get me that way people can be mean so yeah I lashed back, and we all have a pity party but when nothing but bad happens to you how can you be happy but I don't use it to use people I know how that feels and it feels awful I just want someone to say they understand and maybe give me advice on how to pass it and I have pushed peoples buttons but if you tell me not to push the button I want to we all have and every one has one these traits and if you say you don't your a liar